It is not selfish to love self. Taking care of self which can make us happy is important. In fact it is necessary.
Just imagine how nice it would be if we devote time regularly to love self.
It’s important to love self because the amount of love we get from others may not be sufficient to fulfill the needs of our soul until we love self.
Loving self teaches us to maintain better relationships and have a better life.
Self-love remains the source of all our other loves.
It is the best source to build our confidence, enjoy our life and it can change our life for ever.
Remember, for the society to love us and respect us we have to first love self and respect self.
This will reflect on us and have an impact on how we behave and react when we move in the society.
Here are a few best ways to love self for a better me and you.
Talk to self:
Yes, talk to self like we would with someone we love.
Happiness may come by talking to self and when we are not too much concerned about the views and approval of others.
If we are living with just the approvals, views of others it’s criticizing self.There is no reason not to love self.
Try approving self talks and self-love, see the difference and the impact it can create on us.This will build trust in self and improve our self-confidence.
As we build the trust and self-confidence in self our ability to expand our vision will improve and we can lead a happy and successful life..
Respect what we are:
The next important thing to love self is we have to respect self.
It’s good we consistently start focusing on what we are good at, improve it to become better and also continuously work on the areas we have to get better.
Once we start working on these, we can see the change in self and we will start feeling good about our own progress. This will develop self respect.
Believe in self:
The most important thing to love self is to start believing self. Self-belief is the key for one’s development.
We may many times get disappointed,depressed and feel less self-confident in our day today life.
This is the time we should not lose hope,recollect the tougher situations that we came across and the way we handled it effectively and efficiently to come out of it.
I personally feel belief in self can take us long way and can make miracles.
Take up new challenges and push self to achieve them:
Remember the only way to grow self is by taking up new challenges and by pushing self to achieve them.
This is a great means to constantly build our self-confidence to develop respect on self and loving self.
Practice a new skill :
The other best means to build self-confidence and love self is to keep ourselves updated to the needs of the society.
There is no other means for our self-growth.The skills we acquire and the changes that they bring in self, will constantly improve our self-respect.
Few minutes a day to practice a new skill will get a considerable amount of change over a year’s time.
When we look back after a year we will be able to notice a tremendous change in self, we will for sure deserve a pat for self and this will be a booster for self-love.
It’s important we feel good when we look at self. It’s good we maintain our physique and feel good about it.
There is no need to wait for a time to start hitting a gym or practice exercising if we feel we have to shed down some weight.
Once we start and continue we can start noticing the changes in self, this will considerably improve our confidence, love and respect towards self.
Hope these few self-changes will help us developing self-love, for a better me and you.
Do please share your comments and thoughts if any and also share this with your family and friends if you feel this can be of help.